Why are you so angry about JLaw's nudes being leaked? I thought you didn't like her.
i am angry because this is just another example of women being shamed for taking nudes instead of the douchebag who spreads them being shamed for violating someone’s privacy like that
i am angry because nobody deserves this, regardless of how i feel about their personality
i am angry because this is pure misogyny and shows how women aren’t respected in our culture
i am angry because she did not consent to having those pics posted everywhere but they still were
i am angry because on the VERY RARE occasion this happens to a male celeb he is not shamed but rather the perpetrator is and it’s forgotten quickly whereas this will haunt jennifer for years and years to come
i am angry because this was a sex crime and people are treating it like a joke
i am angry because she is being exploited/objectified and some gross dudebros are probably jacking off to those pics
i am angry because people are CONGRATULATING the fucker who did such an atrocious thing to her instead of being appalled
listen i may not like her personally but the fact remains that as a human being she is entitled to body autonomy and to choose who sees her naked body and who doesn’t
“I go through phases. Somedays I feel like the person I’m supposed to be, and then somedays, I turn into no one at all. There is both me and my silhouette. I hope that on the days you find me and all I am are darkened lines, you still are willing to be near me.”—Mary Kate Teske (via larmoyante)
“I am sorry for filling you with beer and bad thoughts and then asking you why you shook. I am sorry for pinching you, for hitting you, for bruising the thin-skinned parts of you. I am sorry for the names I called you when we were fighting. You are not ugly. You are not useless. You would not be better off gone. I’m sorry for almost throwing you out into the street because my sadness was too much for me. I’m sorry for carving my fingernails into your thigh and then resenting the way people asked, “How’d that happen?” I’m sorry for plucking you and nicking your calves with drugstore razors. I’m sorry I let some people see you in the moonlight. They didn’t deserve to know the color of your hips like I do. I’m sorry for leaving you convulsing over a toilet bowl over some boy. I’m sorry I did not thank you for simply trying to take me where I wanted to go. I’m sorry I screamed at you to shrink, shrink, shrink when all you could do was grow. I’m sorry that this apology is ten years too late. I’m sorry that it will probably come again. I’m sorry that I do not treat anybody else as poorly as I have treated you. I’m sorry that I am constantly learning how to love you, when you have never once doubted how you feel about me. I’m sorry in ways I have not yet learned to communicate.”—An Apology to My Body | Lora Mathis (via lora-mathis)
This is my blog and I’ll write about whatever I wanna write about.
So I’m gunna tell you how I’m diving down a waterfall of happiness. Maybe I’m hated but I’m treated the very very very best from the people that matter. No ones ever made me so happy. No ones ever ever loved me like this. I’ve…
Today has been the shittiest day. I have cried for 10 hours straight. And I fucking miss him and I can’t help it.
He talked to me and it helped a little. A little closure is better than none.
So now I have a wicked migraine and dry heaves because I can’t eat. :’) fuck falling in love and breaking up while you’re both still in love.
Side note: there has been over 20 women who have messaged me in support and the kindest words. That is so badass and postive and I’m glad at least someone can see recovery for me.
Rachel, my dear, my inspiration, you are truly a goddess of light and it pains my heart so much to see you hurting in any way. I have watched you rise above the most heartbreaking situations with so much love still pouring out of you, so I can tell you that you can pull through this. You're so much stronger than you lead yourself to believe, you really are. You are a ray of sunshine on this dark world, please believe that above anything. My hearts with you.
thank you. you are so special. you know exactly where i am right now and how much it kills.